First things First..

I am a 40 year old woman, I live in (what used to be a small town) NW FL..  I live about 30 minutes from the Gulf of Mexico, we absolutely surrounded with water...  I can be at the water 10 Minutes in any direction, it is fabulous!!!  I have lived here most of my life and I am just now at 40 really embracing my choice of home town...  I have lived here always because I was expected too, and because I am not very social, so I have alot of friends, but if you ask them, it is because they talked to me first, or because we happened into a conversation because of circumstances, not because I walked up and made friends..  I am just not that girl!!!  Once we are friends, no sweat, I am great in that scenario...